For men:Ways to earn women trust
1. Do not be scared to tell her the bad things
about you
Don’t you think it’ll be suspicious if all you say when you are
talking about yourself are only the good things you can do, or
the good things you have done?
2. Let your word be your bond
Always say what you mean and mean what you say. There
might be no better test of your trustworthiness than this.
3. Don’t say bad things about your friend
I mean, how is anyone supposed to trust you when you say
terrible things about your own friends behind their back?
4. Don’t get defensive when she asks awkward
questions
No matter how awkward the situation and the resultant
questions she fires at you, you must realize that all she wants
is reassurance and the best way to grant her that is to answer
the questions as coolly and as honestly as possible.
Getting defensive will only raise her suspicion, generate more
questions in her mind and decrease her trust in you.
When you have no qualms about introducing her to anyone.
5. You keep old friends
If all your closefriends are people you met one year ago, we
need to ask you what happened to the friends from way back.
This might mean that you cut out people very easily and that
does not bode well for the trust a lady might be hoping to
build in you.
6. You can ditch a woman for a friend in need
If a friend gives you a distress call while you are maybe on a
date with a lady, and you ignore the call or lied about your
whereabouts just to avoid being there for him at that time, a
sensible lady will take note of that as a sign of your
unreliability.
I actually wouldn’t blame a woman who walks out on you right
there and then.
I mean, if you can do that to your friend just to hang out with a
babe, what kind of man are you?
7. You are good with secrets
If you can restrain yourself and keep secrets of other people
from her when you necessarily have to, she might not like it,
but she will get used to it eventually and in fact come to
respect you for it because, you have shown her that her own
secrets are just as safe with you.
8. You let her know details of your phone
This is easy. A phone without passwords or one whose
password is well known to your lady is one of the easiest,
fastest ways to earn her trust.
It suggests that you have nothing to hide from her.
A woman will easily trust you when your actions are the same
around everybody. No pretence, no shady acts.
9. You’re not a disgraceful mess when drunk
I’d say don’t get drunk at all, but of course, this is an attempt
at futility.
However, a woman’s trust in you will be heightened if,
somehow, you relatively act sensibly when drunk. Simply
because the things people say when they are drunk are
actually their real tendencies which were subdued during their
sober periods.
10. You act the same around everyone
Your accent does not suddenly change when you are
somewhere, you comport yourself the same way every time,
everywhere.
11. You’re trusting
If after all these things you are doing to earn her trust, you
refuse to trust her, then you should maybe stop wasting your
time because your refusal to trust her will most likely undo all
the fine work you have done.