For ladies : ways to let you no if your man is trustworthy or not....
1. Nil by mouth
Any attempt to cover their mouth – however apparently
subconscious – could well be a sign that they’re
uncomfortable with what they’re saying or hiding something
from you.
2. Jesus takes the wheel
If your other half is suddenly spouting religious phrases like ‘I
swear to Jesus’ or ‘God no’, then they may be trying to hard to
cover something up.
3. The disappearing act
Watch their hands. Are they trying to make them disappear,
possibly into their pockets, behind their backs or under their
legs? If yes, this could be a sign that they’re hiding more than
just their palms.
4. The key is in the detail
A common misconception about cheats and liars is that they
can’t provide detail about their lie, but actually, they may go
into too much detail. If they can’t stop talking and appear to
be saying things as they occur to them, it might be that it’s all
fabricated.
5. The eyes have it
You know your partner best. Are they finding it more difficult
than usual to maintain eye contact? Then they could be
feeling guilty. And if they’ve fixed an unusually strong stare on
your eyes, they could be doing so in an effort to try to control
your opinion of them.
6. Timing is everything
If there are noticeable pauses before they answer questions,
they could be buying themselves time to think of a response.
Equally, answering too soon and speaking quickly is an
indication that they’re desperately trying to convince you of
something.
7. Repetition, repetition, repetition
If they repeat more than one of your questions, they’re
probably using the time to think of a reasonable answer.
8. They’re suddenly really honest
Are they suddenly being super honest but about something
that you’re not actually asking them about? For example, you
question who they had dinner with this evening and they’re
more concerned with apologising for how much they spent on
the dinner than discussing who they ate with. They’re trying to
deflect attention by admitting to a lesser offence.
9. Pinocchio syndrome
Very strange but true: when lying, some people’s nasal tissues
engorge, causing their noses to itch. So an unexplained sniff
could give away more than you think…
10. Examine the evidence
And finally… take a step back and try to look at it objectively:
ask yourself whether you’d believe their story if it was one of
your friends’ partners. If it now sounds implausible, then it
probably is.